Forgiveness is not for the other person, it's for you. Your continued anger towards the other person doesn't do the other person any harm. You're only harming yourself harboring hostility towards people that have done you wrong. What you are doing when you forgive someone is making up your mind that you're not angry at that person anymore. Forgiving someone is for your healing, not the other person's healing. Not forgiving someone is like taking a double dose of THEIR wrong doing, because they hurt you with the initial act, and then you suffer from the anger. Let it go my friend, it's not worth it. There's an old tale that goes something like this:
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Don't feed the evil wolf inside you!