Is there anyone you will never forgive? I'd love to hear the story!

Blue Wizard

Well-Known Member
They always attack in threes and fours for some reason.
That's always the way it goes, used to get beaten almost daily growing up and it was never fewer than 3. Chicken shit if you ask me, even this guy that was twice my size wouldn't do anything unless someone had his back.
 
Carne they attack in numbers cause thee is safety in numbers, they are sure they'll win. but on t my story
the person I cant forgive is my 2nd wife we were married for 10 yrs had 2 kids from her and 1 from first marriage when she talked me into letting her get in tractor trailer driving school when we got back from enrollment she handed me a letter from the red cross it was opened it stated I had hepatitis C. she hit the road and really didnt care about us anymore and left me while I was on chemo for hep C I had the kids then as I was about finished she played games to get her kids from me so she didn't have to pay child support and tried filling their head full of shit about me. our daughter didn't buy into all her mom BS and 3 yrs later she came home to me all messed up my 14y old daughter's life goal was to be a stripper. I had a big job there getting her straightened out but I did it. I left out some of the finer details but all and all none of it is forgiveable I wasn't a bad husband or father did nothing to deserve it and for that she can rot in hell
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
What's a Cad?
Capitalized, it's an upscale GM product.

Uncapitalized, it's "
an ill-bred man, especially one who behaves in a dishonorable or irresponsible way toward women." In context, that's a bit of a chinscratcher. cn

<edit> not sure why, but this post triggered that screwy captcha screen.
 

Carne Seca

Well-Known Member
Wait... what? Towards women? Do I look or act like a woman for Hell's sake? I find that rather offensive and belit.... oh shit.... I just broke a nail... daaaamn!
 

The Outdoorsman

Well-Known Member
For saying three words, "I am gay." That's all it took.
I'm sorry to hear that, my sympathy for your loss. Must be pretty bad in the south for that shit to happen. Hope they pay for what they did and if you ever decide on retribution, may I suggest a crime fighting alter-ego hell bent on ending intolerance. Just need to think of an appropriate name....
 

Carne Seca

Well-Known Member
I'm sorry to hear that, my sympathy for your loss. Must be pretty bad in the south for that shit to happen. Hope they pay for what they did and if you ever decide on retribution, may I suggest a crime fighting alter-ego hell bent on ending intolerance. Just need to think of an appropriate name....
We already have one. His name is Mutton Man. Dun-duh-dunnnn!

 

Trolling

New Member
My grandma because she is so easily manipulated.

My aunt because she manipulated my grandma.

My grandpas because one is a racist and another is just a douche.

My brother because all he thinks about is himself.

My uncle because he's a meth head who steals.


No stories, pointless waist of time.
 

Padawanbater2

Well-Known Member
My grandma because she is so easily manipulated.

My aunt because she manipulated my grandma.

My grandpas because one is a racist and another is just a douche.

My brother because all he thinks about is himself.

My uncle because he's a meth head who steals.


No stories, pointless waist of time.
imo, these seem like very trivial reasons to never forgive a person, some of them likely require your help/attention to find a solution, if that's what you want that is.
 

Taviddude

Well-Known Member
Forgiveness is not for the other person, it's for you. Your continued anger towards the other person doesn't do the other person any harm. You're only harming yourself harboring hostility towards people that have done you wrong. What you are doing when you forgive someone is making up your mind that you're not angry at that person anymore. Forgiving someone is for your healing, not the other person's healing. Not forgiving someone is like taking a double dose of THEIR wrong doing, because they hurt you with the initial act, and then you suffer from the anger. Let it go my friend, it's not worth it. There's an old tale that goes something like this:

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Don't feed the evil wolf inside you! ;)
That saying actually got me through a transformative point in my life.
 

Seedling

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That saying actually got me through a transformative point in my life.
Yeah, it really shines the light on how what you dwell on is what you become. You are the engineer of your life. You can choose to live an angry life because of what someone did to you in the past, or you can let it go and move on to bigger and better things. Do NOT let someone drag you down!
 
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