I don't hold any ill will towards Mandela, I applaud the stand he took on reconciliation, particularly as he was so personally and deeply affected. You bring up an interesting point though regarding Milosevic but history already sees him as a fucking whack-job and all his attributes and accomplishments were disgustingly negative. Whereas, Mandela will continue to inspire debate wether good or bad due to his overwhelmingly positive accomplishments - a feat which I think he would be proud of as one would hope it will pave the way to understanding.