One has to doubt the integrity of someone who claims to want to grow old with his soul mate yet tells a bunch of strangers on the internet the dimensions of his beloved's vagina
@tampee is a narcissist. Everything he says is about him and drawing attention to himself. Nothing he says can be taken as fact. If we treat what he says as a tell about what he thinks about himself, we are closer to the truth. So, no farm, no walled compound in the sticks, none of the stuff he's concocted here to present his persona. Every now and then, the truth can be found, like the one where he said he'd been to pedo porn sites but only accidentally. So that he could claim superior knowledge at the moment.
Narcissists are usually able to attract interest from the sex of preference but rarely form close and long term relationships. It's my guess his SO has formed a detached relationship that allows him to fool himself he's loved. She, on the other hand has learned how to avoid pushing his rage button and maintains a closeness that is no deeper than what it takes to maintain an external image of a couple. Like Melania has with Trump. He most definitely is the personality type that can be a pedo.