Why it certainly is, an always was. Hell, you're on in you thirties , you better strap in. Just wait until your an old fart. The curve balls keep getting worse. Jim Morrison......... " I'm getting out of here,before the whole shithouse goes up in flames". As the Navajo's would say , " Dark winds blow on everyone......it's will power that gets you through it " . Sorry for you misery ! " Nobody said that life would be a cakewalk" , as the old saying goes. You gotta " hold tight ", if not you will be of no help to anyone. When I was a young teen, my father said to me. during those dark times " Ya gotta put your big boy pants on along with some brass balls" ( He a WWII combat vet, which accounted for his demeanor).....
" toughen up". A very loving, wonderful father.