you have a very nice surgical nurse wife who i would imagine makes great bank and health insurance being that she works at the hospital..this is so she can allow you your dead-end dream of counting quarters and re-balancing washing machines.
does she know you talk like this? is aware of your mental afflictions?
you know rebalancing washing machines is a very common problem in the industry. I actually hired someone a while back to do that, because that shit happens why to often for my liking. Why can't people load a load properly without overloading it as well. One good think is frontend loaders you don't have that problem as much, but it does happen especially if you buying cheap models.
My wife loves my dirty draws and I love her just as much back. We are the Ying to the Yang.
She would disagree with you more about how you feel about the naming of blacks. She would also wonder why you think only blacks enjoy chicken and watermelon. I guess If she hear your story about your father, she might just shed a tear, but she also wonder why you don't change that thinking.
FYI- that dead-end dream of counting quarters helps support our life style we both have grown to enjoy. I have a pension from the USAF that I have not touched in a few years.
Don't hate, but congratulate