Why Is She Such A Bitch?

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redivider

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i don't have kids so i'm a bit selfish.

but i think that even if i did have kids i'd walk away from a woman that's a total bitch.... i've gone too many nights without sleep over bullshit puppy love... i've learned now that unless she's willing to swallow your cum, let you spray that shit all over her butthole n titties, and some other pretty freaky shit..... it's not worth it....
 
darkdestruction420

darkdestruction420

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Metasynth said:
Seperation is hard, and even harder with kids. She's gotta be feeling overwhelmed, even with the money help...You're a father, you know parenting isn't easy, now she's gotta be mom AND dad...Doesn't leave her a lot of time to move on with her life, get a job, school, whatever she wants to do...Plus now she will have trouble going ut and finding another man to pay for her lifestyle with 2 kids in tow...How long you going away for? 2 years? You really think you'll serve 2 years or just get out with time served at 30%, out in like 8 months.......
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that depends on where he lives. up here they just passed a bill to stop the parole process, some truth in sentencing nonsense thats going to cost us more money and ruin even more peoples lives but hey, the local republicans only gotalot of their campaign contributions from a company that runs private prisons.......theyve got our and societies best interest in mind, who could ever doubt that?
 
MrStickyScissors

MrStickyScissors

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massah said:
sounds like she wants to fuck you in the ass too...and take all your money...seriously do at this point show the bitch whos boss...stop paying her fucking rent, take back your car, YOU earned it not her...YOU provide for your kids not her shit, if she cant afford a car then fuck her...she needs to get a job...she needs a bitchslap of reality and not a guy like you who is going to provide for her...my ex wife pays ME child support for a reason...because shes a royal fuckup and I raked her ass over the coals in court...you can do it to! Get custody! DO IT DO IT!!
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at times i think the same way and i start to do that. then the other day i went to the house and theres no cable so i go and bring her a dvd player. i come to get my kids the next day and she put together a big ass pussle on the counter so i gave her the jeep back. i asked her if she wants cable and she says she doesnt need to watch tv. i go and get my son a halloween costume and stop by her house on the way back to show her and try it on and she yells at me thinking im trying to check up on her
 
MrStickyScissors

MrStickyScissors

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redivider said:
i don't have kids so i'm a bit selfish.

but i think that even if i did have kids i'd walk away from a woman that's a total bitch.... i've gone too many nights without sleep over bullshit puppy love... i've learned now that unless she's willing to swallow your cum, let you spray that shit all over her butthole n titties, and some other pretty freaky shit..... it's not worth it....
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lol .
 
massah

massah

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women suck...especially mean bitches that were trained from the start to fuck over men to take care of them...I love my wife don't get me wrong...but if shit was about to start going down separation wise I can guarantee she'd be the one moving the fuck out since I pay the mortgage ;)
 
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boneheadbob

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You sound like a nice guy who loves his wife and children. You also wish to have a "friendship" for the kids sake. Been there, done that. Some women are real good at that. Most women cannot deal with it and you will have to back away while still standing behind her. You have to realize that and change your thinking about her. All you can do is be the best you possible for the sake of your kids. Swallow your pride. You will be more of a man for proper behaviour then proving to people that she is wrong and you are right. That wont mean diddly squat down the road.
Irrational spur of the moment thinking is your worse enemy. Always sleep on any moves.
Think long term.

That does not mean you have to be a doormat. Read "The Art Of War" by Sun Tzu.. Apply it to your battle with her but never forget.

Best wishes for you and yours.
PS She is the mom of your kids. You have to pray for and actually want her to be happy in life for your kids. And dont forget to keep a detailed journal!!!!!!!!!!!
 
MrStickyScissors

MrStickyScissors

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dont get me wrong i was a asswhole as well. but i feel like she made me that way. she is very bossy she thinks wat i do for a living is hella easy like i just piss and sum pots and make all this money. so she expects me to make bottles when my daughter wakes up i even watch the kids when shes at school. she calls me messy if she sees a cheese rapper on the counter and its a big ass deal. its insane. and even if im clearly right it doesnt matter. even her family will take her side. its crazy.she could be smoking crack and justify it sumhow
 
MrStickyScissors

MrStickyScissors

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boneheadbob said:
You sound like a nice guy who loves his wife and children. You also wish to have a "friendship" for the kids sake. Been there, done that. Some women are real good at that. Most women cannot deal with it and you will have to back away while still standing behind her. You have to realize that and change your thinking about her. All you can do is be the best you possible for the sake of your kids. Swallow your pride. You will be more of a man for proper behaviour then proving to people that she is wrong and you are right. That wont mean diddly squat down the road.
Irrational spur of the moment thinking is your worse enemy. Always sleep on any moves.
Think long term.

That does not mean you have to be a doormat. Read "The Art Of War" by Sun Tzu.. Apply it to your battle with her but never forget.

Best wishes for you and yours.
PS She is the mom of your kids. You have to pray for and actually want her to be happy in life for your kids. And dont forget to keep a detailed journal!!!!!!!!!!!
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thats good advice. thanks. i need to just stay away for a while. it doesnt matter whos right or wrong. all i can hope for is for her to find sumone that will make her happy. and hopfully they dont fuck with my kids or i will be in prison for gud
 
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boneheadbob

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It will sound corny but when I lost my ex, I was devastated, I thought the world would end and I tried to drink myself to death to prove to everyone how much love I had.

Long story but one day my head popped out of my ass. I realized that if I really did love her as much as I claimed to, then I would want her to be happy with whatever bonehead she picked next.

She has still been with him for 18 years and I have not had a drink in 19.
We both won
 
jonblaze420

jonblaze420

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boneheadbob said:
It will sound corny but when I lost my ex, I was devastated, I thought the world would end and I tried to drink myself to death to prove to everyone how much love I had.

Long story but one day my head popped out of my ass. I realized that if I really did love her as much as I claimed to, then I would want her to be happy with whatever bonehead she picked next.

She has still been with him for 18 years and I have not had a drink in 19.
We both won
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Um. want a beer? or a rum and coke actually, that's what i have
 
MJstudent

MJstudent

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YRCA said:
Maybe you should look at how your treating her, You act like she should make her life revolve around you.
Man up move on.
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thats not what it seems like to me, seems like he is doing quite a bit for her, and not going ttrick or treating wwith her kid because she doesnt like the dad is irrisponibal, childish, and hurts the kid the most, better to have two parents that live apart and get along than two parents who dont talk and cant get along for the welfare of the kids
 
jonblaze420

jonblaze420

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I can't take you even next to seriously with that AV pic, sorry bro.

It's because me3 ( a troll ) had the same AV pic and posted nasty pictures,

Anyways, just a heads up lol?
 
MrStickyScissors

MrStickyScissors

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what sucks is as much as i really dont like her im hella sad. i was allready sad about having to go to prison. i have allready been there years ago but i didnt have kids. now that i dont live with them it sucks cause im used to being there when they wake up and being there when they go to sleep
 
Hypocrite420

Hypocrite420

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I feel ya brother, I have twin 3 year old girls. Just turned 3 last week. I don't know what I would do if I had to go through the deep shit you are going through right now. At least, it sounds like you have taken your profession seriously and can provide for your kids whether or not you are away for a couple years. Regardless of what happens between you and her, or how long you are away, you are OBVIOUSLY a great father and a good person and your kids will see that once they are old enough to understand. Plus it probably just feels good to vent, and I am glad there is a community of understanding people here that you can vent to. I have only been here a month and have met some of the coolest people on the planet. Good luck brother, we can only do so much for inspiration, but we are all here to listen and talk to you.
 
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