Why Is She Such A Bitch?

Clonex

Well-Known Member
I think you seem like a decent guy , its sad that you have to go to jail , im sure your kids will miss you , it seems also that you are ok money wise , keep trying to look out for them, im sure the jeep is helping her with the kids , do what you feel is right , it must be hard for her with you going away and all , stand by your morals and hope that she 1 day wises up , have a good stretch , peace be with ya:)
 

MrStickyScissors

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I feel ya brother, I have twin 3 year old girls. Just turned 3 last week. I don't know what I would do if I had to go through the deep shit you are going through right now. At least, it sounds like you have taken your profession seriously and can provide for your kids whether or not you are away for a couple years. Regardless of what happens between you and her, or how long you are away, you are OBVIOUSLY a great father and a good person and your kids will see that once they are old enough to understand. Plus it probably just feels good to vent, and I am glad there is a community of understanding people here that you can vent to. I have only been here a month and have met some of the coolest people on the planet. Good luck brother, we can only do so much for inspiration, but we are all here to listen and talk to you.
thanks man. I appreciate that. there are alot of cool people on here what other site can you meet 6 people in person and not run into sumone bad. lol iv met 6 people off of here and not one has been a bad person. luck? maybe.
 

dirtsurfr

Well-Known Member
Do what you think is right remember Karma...
Do your time get your shit together when you get out and maybe you'll see those kids again.
 

MrStickyScissors

Well-Known Member
I think you seem like a decent guy , its sad that you have to go to jail , im sure your kids will miss you , it seems also that you are ok money wise , keep trying to look out for them, im sure the jeep is helping her with the kids , do what you feel is right , it must be hard for her with you going away and all , stand by your morals and hope that she 1 day wises up , have a good stretch , peace be with ya:)

thanks. this will be my second term. i did a 2 with half 5 years ago. this new term will be over 27 grams of weed. so it kinda stings. also i didnt have kids back then. I would have to say one of the worst parts about prison is that you can never feel settled in even a little bit. the people are so different most people in there have nothing to live for. you feel like a outsider.
 

dirtsurfr

Well-Known Member
When I first rolled into the yard I was approched by a couple of guys asking me what car I road in, I told then I got there in a VW Bug with 1 seat and i had no use for a car.
Now if yer a youngan your prolly not going to be given a choice.
 

DSB65

Well-Known Member
when i first rolled into the yard i was approched by a couple of guys asking me what car i road in, i told then i got there in a vw bug with 1 seat and i had no use for a car.
Now if yer a youngan your prolly not going to be given a choice.
havent heard who you going to ride with in years..last guy that came at me with that shit got his jaw broke....
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
thanks. this will be my second term. i did a 2 with half 5 years ago. this new term will be over 27 grams of weed. so it kinda stings. also i didnt have kids back then. I would have to say one of the worst parts about prison is that you can never feel settled in even a little bit. the people are so different most people in there have nothing to live for. you feel like a outsider.
You do have something to live for, Mr. Sticky Scissors. That is powerful good medicine to have in your heart on the bad days. Respect. cn
 

Clonex

Well-Known Member
thanks. this will be my second term. i did a 2 with half 5 years ago. this new term will be over 27 grams of weed. so it kinda stings. also i didnt have kids back then. I would have to say one of the worst parts about prison is that you can never feel settled in even a little bit. the people are so different most people in there have nothing to live for. you feel like a outsider.
you go to jail for 27g of marijuana ?
I did a short term for something else a bit back,
Its good you feel an outsider , when you dont its because your "institutionlised" and that aint good, those dawgs have nothing, good luck man...
 

Jimmy Sparkle

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Hey man listen, I love my wife and at the moment we are all good. But one thing that I do know is that they are mean and hurtfull and most of the time it's because of some shit that we did or are doing. Some, on the other hand are just bitches and thats all you can ever expect out of them. My buddy says that they are an open hole that can never be filled no matter what you do or how much shit you put inside. Not trick or treating or being cordial in front of the children is just pure shit. I come from an Italian family and that fuckin bitch would have hell to pay if she acted like that in front of my kid's. My own mother would strangle my wife to death if she ever made my children feel uncomfortable like that. She should do that stuff behind closed doors and never let the kid's see any of the adult drama bullshit. Let her take care of the kids while you are in the clink but make sure you got a close trusted friend keeping an eye on things for you. When you get out , take all your shit back and tell her to go get fucked. When the children get older let them choose who they want to be with ...Fuck her ...
 

MrStickyScissors

Well-Known Member
Hey man listen, I love my wife and at the moment we are all good. But one thing that I do know is that they are mean and hurtfull and most of the time it's because of some shit that we did or are doing. Some, on the other hand are just bitches and thats all you can ever expect out of them. My buddy says that they are an open hole that can never be filled no matter what you do or how much shit you put inside. Not trick or treating or being cordial in front of the children is just pure shit. I come from an Italian family and that fuckin bitch would have hell to pay if she acted like that in front of my kid's. My own mother would strangle my wife to death if she ever made my children feel uncomfortable like that. She should do that stuff behind closed doors and never let the kid's see any of the adult drama bullshit. Let her take care of the kids while you are in the clink but make sure you got a close trusted friend keeping an eye on things for you. When you get out , take all your shit back and tell her to go get fucked. When the children get older let them choose who they want to be with ...Fuck her ...
yeah i need to try one more time to get her to at least be around and happy during the holidays.
 

potpimp

Sector 5 Moderator
MrStickyScissors I am so sorry to hear about your going to prison and the bitch. Not much you can do about her and you've already gotten some great advice so I won't try to add to it, but I do want to offer my sympathy, for what it's worth. I'm guessing you are awaiting sentencing and the trial is over. 27 grams? That's just pure, 100% unadulterated bullshit. We have a fucked up government my friend.
 

MrStickyScissors

Well-Known Member
MrStickyScissors I am so sorry to hear about your going to prison and the bitch. Not much you can do about her and you've already gotten some great advice so I won't try to add to it, but I do want to offer my sympathy, for what it's worth. I'm guessing you are awaiting sentencing and the trial is over. 27 grams? That's just pure, 100% unadulterated bullshit. We have a fucked up government my friend.
thanks. i appreciate it. im just fighting it waiting for it to be resolved. im hoping they wont take it all the way to trial over 27 grams but i want to be prepared in case they do. thanks for the kind words
 

xKuroiTaimax

Well-Known Member
I can't stand it when people turn to spite like that. It's not my business to ask what went wrong, but I wonder what broke up your family- and If you're going to prison you need to know she will be there for your children, emotionally too.

You seem like a really decent reasonable guy and I don't know what her problem is- but I'm not there, nor do I truly know either of you, but usually I am the first one to call a man a prick for complaining about his wife/girlfriend. There are an awful lot of 'my girlfriend's a bitch, I'm just going to find some hoes and hire a maid...'-type threads here but this isn't one of them.

I just hope it all works out for the best in the end. x
 

OGEvilgenius

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sounds like she wants to fuck you in the ass too...and take all your money...seriously do at this point show the bitch whos boss...stop paying her fucking rent, take back your car, YOU earned it not her...YOU provide for your kids not her shit, if she cant afford a car then fuck her...she needs to get a job...she needs a bitchslap of reality and not a guy like you who is going to provide for her...my ex wife pays ME child support for a reason...because shes a royal fuckup and I raked her ass over the coals in court...you can do it to! Get custody! DO IT DO IT!!
The kids most likely need that stuff. Being vindictive doesn't win you any points in reality. Kill her with kindness (especially since you have kids) IMO and just be the bigger person. He's not going to win custody. The fact he has half time is a miracle considering she could take it away from him at a whim.
 

smokinheavy79

New Member
so me and my girl broke up after 4 years of being together. we have 2 young kids. I pay half of her rent and all her utilities and i dont even stay there anymore. i felt bad for her and gave her my jeep commander to use and all i asked for was a ride back to where i was staying and she started bitching at me saying its stupid she doesnt want to be aroud me the less shes around me the better. im just trying to help her. she wont even go trick or treating with me and my son. i dont get it. just cause we arnt together doesnt mean we cant act right in frount of our childeren so that they can have a gud holiday season. and to top it off im going to prision for a couple years within the next three months you think she would be a little more sympathetic

:shock: ummm... damn dude... all of that sounds very terrible... Why you goin to prison??
 
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