How is it that one is understood? Getting them to agree with you? Berating them when you don't understand what they are telling you? I am NOT asking anyone to believe me, here. I am not trying to sway you, condemn you, hurt you, deceive you.... what do you want from me? To Understand me? GOOD, if so, because that is all I ask of anyone. I don't need your agreement I need your Understanding. THEN form your insults about WHAT it is you have become to understand about ME. All the PRE- Understanding, PRE-Proggrammed responses will become obsolete....be calm. Don't suppose, FEEL.