My Girl Doesn't Want Me Smoke Weed No More
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Miss MeanWeed
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It's a test to see how easily you are dominated. She will use all manner of words to convince you to stop pot smoking. Once you give in, this is a future green light to other 'things' about you she would like to alter. As soon as you are contolled by her, you lose some or your attractiveness in her eyes. She will say otherwise, but really she thinks you are a pussy for letting her control you.
Much like a lioness will have a bit of a fight with a lion when he seeks to mate with her, she will put up a fight to test the lion's worthiness. The lioness doesn't want to breed with just any lion, her seed donor must be dominant. If the lioness can scare a suitor away, or indeed even prevent the intentions of the male lion, then he is just not worthy. What lioness will mate with a weak male lion? None. This would produce poor stock, and any potential breeding partner must prove his mettle to demonstrate that his superior genes will produce superior offspring
Human women don't have (visible) fang and claws, so their methods of testing their mate's mettle is a slower, more inductive method.
Women are hard-wired to break men. They test by probing and using all their guile and wiles (read: sex) as a carrot. Her request has nothing whatsoever to do with your health, more to do with her reputation, and the fact you are spending money buying weed, and not on her. She would like to have an input (read: control) over how your money is used, and you buying weed is akin to you operating outside the spheres of her domain. Without her permission.
It is all about control, and using their companionship (read: sex) as ultimatum's to secure control over you and your potential. It is possible that the problem with you using pot was a pretext to enable her to present an ultimatum and walk away from her relationship with you. This is a popular technique with women who want to explore other avenues (read: different cock) without feeling like a slut, but need a justification for breaking the implied committment inherent in a relationship. Once she has got her fix of 'real men', she will initiate the forgiveness and allow you to begin the steps towards reconciliation (read: beg for forgiveness and plead obedience). The lesson you learn: Do what I say or I will let other men fuck me.
In her mind, she is meant to want you, to need you, her dominant male protector. NOT be able to control you by restricting access to her vagina. You have already proven you are a 'broken' male to her, and she only wants you back for familiarity, your earning potential, and most importantly because she can control you. She is effectively brainwashing you using sex and all the emotions you mistakenly attach to it.
You could try the 'talk it out' approach, which is basically negotiations of how much of a lackey you will be.
She will say "You don't need pot, you have me.." or somesuch other tripe.
She won't even agree to you smoking it socially, saying " You'll start again if you smoke that..." or more such other claptrap.
It's all about a method of control and dominance. She will look everyday for evidence of you smoking, and will find/store/invent any dirt she can regarding you and weed, to be used as a 'get out of jail free' card whenever she needs to re-establish the pecking order, or if she just wants a guilt-free way to take four strangers cocks at once.
Much like a lioness will have a bit of a fight with a lion when he seeks to mate with her, she will put up a fight to test the lion's worthiness. The lioness doesn't want to breed with just any lion, her seed donor must be dominant. If the lioness can scare a suitor away, or indeed even prevent the intentions of the male lion, then he is just not worthy. What lioness will mate with a weak male lion? None. This would produce poor stock, and any potential breeding partner must prove his mettle to demonstrate that his superior genes will produce superior offspring
Human women don't have (visible) fang and claws, so their methods of testing their mate's mettle is a slower, more inductive method.
Women are hard-wired to break men. They test by probing and using all their guile and wiles (read: sex) as a carrot. Her request has nothing whatsoever to do with your health, more to do with her reputation, and the fact you are spending money buying weed, and not on her. She would like to have an input (read: control) over how your money is used, and you buying weed is akin to you operating outside the spheres of her domain. Without her permission.
It is all about control, and using their companionship (read: sex) as ultimatum's to secure control over you and your potential. It is possible that the problem with you using pot was a pretext to enable her to present an ultimatum and walk away from her relationship with you. This is a popular technique with women who want to explore other avenues (read: different cock) without feeling like a slut, but need a justification for breaking the implied committment inherent in a relationship. Once she has got her fix of 'real men', she will initiate the forgiveness and allow you to begin the steps towards reconciliation (read: beg for forgiveness and plead obedience). The lesson you learn: Do what I say or I will let other men fuck me.
In her mind, she is meant to want you, to need you, her dominant male protector. NOT be able to control you by restricting access to her vagina. You have already proven you are a 'broken' male to her, and she only wants you back for familiarity, your earning potential, and most importantly because she can control you. She is effectively brainwashing you using sex and all the emotions you mistakenly attach to it.
You could try the 'talk it out' approach, which is basically negotiations of how much of a lackey you will be.
She will say "You don't need pot, you have me.." or somesuch other tripe.
She won't even agree to you smoking it socially, saying " You'll start again if you smoke that..." or more such other claptrap.
It's all about a method of control and dominance. She will look everyday for evidence of you smoking, and will find/store/invent any dirt she can regarding you and weed, to be used as a 'get out of jail free' card whenever she needs to re-establish the pecking order, or if she just wants a guilt-free way to take four strangers cocks at once.
Woodstock.Hippie
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How would you design a social blade to cut into the hearts of families?
xXF0RE20Xx
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My wife once told me i was spending too much $$ on the stuff....so then i says....well, if i cant buy it...ill grow it!!!
xXF0RE20Xx
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Furthermore, OP, relationships are a two way street.....what it sounds like she is doing is exactly that, controlling you. I've been in that situation, somehow weed always prevailed. Why? Because thats a part of who i am, im a smoker of the ganja....don't like it? Go find a non-smoker....especially if you knew i smoked in the first place. If there is money issues involved, well like i stated earlier.....2 way street. My wife asked me to not spend so much on the stuff, so i cut back, used some of that extra spending money i have now...and i grow in my closet/cabinet. Do what will make her happy, but do whats going to make you happy as well.....dont be the welcome matt......people have shit on their shoes sometimes.
krayz211
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good post!
Woodstock.Hippie
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weedyweedy
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Krayzy 211, maghanap ka kasi ng "ganja girl" hindi yung non-smoker. LOL
But I'd have to agree, the Philippines is f*cked up in the head. Seriously.
But I'd have to agree, the Philippines is f*cked up in the head. Seriously.
krayz211
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sm0keyrich510
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i didnt read the entire thread but skipped through...so forgive me if i say something already said.
In my honest opinion you have to look at all the facts. the pros and cons if you will...
I dont know about how others feel but i dont like the feeling of someone not accepting who you are and attempting to change you. its a terrible feeling and im sure someone knows how it feels to not be "good enough". so you should remember that if she makes you feel as if you're not "good enough" how you are now then she isnt worth your company to begin with.
thats my personal take on the situation. it would be different i think if you smoked a pack of cigarettes a day or drank a pint of hard liquor everyday...then shes arguing for your health and its more reasonable. but mj is a VERY safe NATURAL "drug". No possibly of overdose and FAR safer than alcohol, cigarettes, cocaine, meth, etc. etc. etc.
maybe she isnt aware of its medicinal uses? or how safe it indeed is? (especially if you vap or eat it)
the only bad thing about mj is if you actually consume it by smoking it. other than that its safe...so its not the "drug" its how its used in this situation.
TAlk to her about it. ask her why she wants you to quit. if the reason is simple offer to compromise and work it out. if she just wants you to quit but really cant give any good serious reasons why...or says "because i want you to" then i say she isnt worth it...as long as you dont just sit around n smoke 24/7 it should be okay.
In my honest opinion you have to look at all the facts. the pros and cons if you will...
I dont know about how others feel but i dont like the feeling of someone not accepting who you are and attempting to change you. its a terrible feeling and im sure someone knows how it feels to not be "good enough". so you should remember that if she makes you feel as if you're not "good enough" how you are now then she isnt worth your company to begin with.
thats my personal take on the situation. it would be different i think if you smoked a pack of cigarettes a day or drank a pint of hard liquor everyday...then shes arguing for your health and its more reasonable. but mj is a VERY safe NATURAL "drug". No possibly of overdose and FAR safer than alcohol, cigarettes, cocaine, meth, etc. etc. etc.
maybe she isnt aware of its medicinal uses? or how safe it indeed is? (especially if you vap or eat it)
the only bad thing about mj is if you actually consume it by smoking it. other than that its safe...so its not the "drug" its how its used in this situation.
TAlk to her about it. ask her why she wants you to quit. if the reason is simple offer to compromise and work it out. if she just wants you to quit but really cant give any good serious reasons why...or says "because i want you to" then i say she isnt worth it...as long as you dont just sit around n smoke 24/7 it should be okay.
Medical User
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A> Send the girl in for deprogramming
B> Girls are psychos any way (JK)
C> No one should give you a ultimatum
D> She met you that way she should not try to change you unless it is couch locking you and you are loser without a JOb and in and out of jail
grassified
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I could probably argue against that... somehow.
grassified
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because who smokes weed right? I mean come on, who ACTUALLY smokes weed, i just heat it up in a spoon and shoot up.
BlazinBlunt
Member
damn man i feel for your problem, but some times you just can not get through peoples heads
this is my best advice to you
if she will not budge on her views, then stop smoking and be with your true love, if it dosn't work out then you know you can always fall back on your greens
in the end it really just falls upon how much you really love her and how much you really love your J
this is my best advice to you
if she will not budge on her views, then stop smoking and be with your true love, if it dosn't work out then you know you can always fall back on your greens
in the end it really just falls upon how much you really love her and how much you really love your J
PlantManBee
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if she doesn't support you the way you are (within reason) no point in staying.
Fazz
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just tell her you love her for who she is , and wouldnt want her to change a thing . its a two way street . she shouldnt want to change you .
Sakhal chea
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My girlfriend use to be like that only becuase i was an asshole. One time i had some kush and i smoked it at the beach, 15 minutes later she comes and make out with me sucked my toungue and everything. When it was done i was like fawk! My high is gone.... It hurted her alot. Also another i always talk about weed lol and she feels i love it more than her. She has a legit reason to hate it cuz she had asthma. In the end during the big confrontation i almost left her untill she saw why i smoke. To controll a temper when it rises. Cuz i was bad and crazy in my younger days till maryjane came along. And now she is cool with it as long as i dont talk anout it.