Padawanbater2
Well-Known Member
26 years old, 1 DUI, 3 or 4 drunk in public charges, 1 11550 (under the influence of a controlled substance), 1 car totaled, multiple fights, 4 iPhones lost/destroyed because of it all, no HS diploma, no GED, no job..
I just got back with my dad from picking her up from her boyfriends house, completely wasted, incoherent, hysterical. She called my mom, told her 'someone was threatening her with a knife', my mom called my dad, him and I went up there, she got in the car and made it two blocks before jumping out because my dad was angry and telling her she needs to stop this shit. Right now she's likely getting arrested and going to jail.
Two days ago, a cop came to our house and arrested her for a warrant. She was supposed to go to DIU classes that she never attended. Let her out a day later on OR.
Previous antics;
-Driving her car directly off a 9' embankment into a field, missing a telephone pole by 6' (would have been killed, no doubt about it), calling me 2 town over in the middle of the night to pick her up from a strangers house she met while walking to a gas station (because she left her phone, purse, and even her fucking shoes behind in the car), my girlfriend and I picked her up and she was so fucked up she couldn't even remember where her car was, it took us 45 minutes to finally find it. The inside was completely covered in mud and the front dash was basically detached from the rest of the car, wouldn't start, so we called a tow truck, waited an hour and a half for it to arrive (in the rain), I was so pissed I sat outside the car in the rain just so I didn't have to look at her or speak to her. Tow truck arrives and doesn't have the equipment to get it out of the ditch, we would have had to wait another 3 or 4 hours for a different truck to get there, I said fuck that and we left.
-Middle of the night, I was asleep on the couch, she came in, completely hammered again, and started hitting the keyboard on my computer hard enough to wake me up, I told her to calm down, we ended up getting into an argument and she got physical, I called the cops, they gave her the choice to go to jail for the night or go to a friends house, she got some of her stuff and went to a friends house. 5 hours later, she came back, just as fucked up and did the exact same thing again. This time I woke up and it got physical again, she tore my shirt off my body and hit me in the face, I picked her up and dragged her outside, called the cops again, same two guys came back and took her to jail. She spent 5 days in jail, came back and gave me some half assed apology I knew she didn't mean.
-11am, I'm on the computer, she wakes up, can't find something, I think it was her cigarettes, tears the house apart looking for them while getting more and more pissed off each passing minute, after long enough, I finally can't take it anymore, tell her to calm the fuck down, that lit the fuse, and again we were at it. She hit me in the face and spit on my face, I threw her the fuck out, again. I forget how that ended.. I think she just left..
-Crashed her car while drunk, totaled it, right after my dad put money into it to replace the damage she did to it when she crashed into that field, $500+, he paid for and fixed it himself and she crashed it less than a month later..
Oh yeah..
-She came home absolutely plastered, again, with a previous boyfriend, he asked us to take her because he couldn't deal with her, she didn't want to leave, this all happened right in front of our apartment complex in the middle of the night. She kicked his dash and broke off his gear shift so he couldn't leave, he had to leave his vehicle there and call someone to come get him. She was hysterical, again, came inside, kept it up for another 30 minutes, then passed out. When asked about it the next morning, she said she didn't remember any of it..
..and that's just scratching the surface..
What is the right course of action to take? I have no idea what to do about this, otherwise I wouldn't be posting about it on this forum, it's really pretty damn embarrassing..
Anyone ever dealt with a person like this before?
I just got back with my dad from picking her up from her boyfriends house, completely wasted, incoherent, hysterical. She called my mom, told her 'someone was threatening her with a knife', my mom called my dad, him and I went up there, she got in the car and made it two blocks before jumping out because my dad was angry and telling her she needs to stop this shit. Right now she's likely getting arrested and going to jail.
Two days ago, a cop came to our house and arrested her for a warrant. She was supposed to go to DIU classes that she never attended. Let her out a day later on OR.
Previous antics;
-Driving her car directly off a 9' embankment into a field, missing a telephone pole by 6' (would have been killed, no doubt about it), calling me 2 town over in the middle of the night to pick her up from a strangers house she met while walking to a gas station (because she left her phone, purse, and even her fucking shoes behind in the car), my girlfriend and I picked her up and she was so fucked up she couldn't even remember where her car was, it took us 45 minutes to finally find it. The inside was completely covered in mud and the front dash was basically detached from the rest of the car, wouldn't start, so we called a tow truck, waited an hour and a half for it to arrive (in the rain), I was so pissed I sat outside the car in the rain just so I didn't have to look at her or speak to her. Tow truck arrives and doesn't have the equipment to get it out of the ditch, we would have had to wait another 3 or 4 hours for a different truck to get there, I said fuck that and we left.
-Middle of the night, I was asleep on the couch, she came in, completely hammered again, and started hitting the keyboard on my computer hard enough to wake me up, I told her to calm down, we ended up getting into an argument and she got physical, I called the cops, they gave her the choice to go to jail for the night or go to a friends house, she got some of her stuff and went to a friends house. 5 hours later, she came back, just as fucked up and did the exact same thing again. This time I woke up and it got physical again, she tore my shirt off my body and hit me in the face, I picked her up and dragged her outside, called the cops again, same two guys came back and took her to jail. She spent 5 days in jail, came back and gave me some half assed apology I knew she didn't mean.
-11am, I'm on the computer, she wakes up, can't find something, I think it was her cigarettes, tears the house apart looking for them while getting more and more pissed off each passing minute, after long enough, I finally can't take it anymore, tell her to calm the fuck down, that lit the fuse, and again we were at it. She hit me in the face and spit on my face, I threw her the fuck out, again. I forget how that ended.. I think she just left..
-Crashed her car while drunk, totaled it, right after my dad put money into it to replace the damage she did to it when she crashed into that field, $500+, he paid for and fixed it himself and she crashed it less than a month later..
Oh yeah..
-She came home absolutely plastered, again, with a previous boyfriend, he asked us to take her because he couldn't deal with her, she didn't want to leave, this all happened right in front of our apartment complex in the middle of the night. She kicked his dash and broke off his gear shift so he couldn't leave, he had to leave his vehicle there and call someone to come get him. She was hysterical, again, came inside, kept it up for another 30 minutes, then passed out. When asked about it the next morning, she said she didn't remember any of it..
..and that's just scratching the surface..
What is the right course of action to take? I have no idea what to do about this, otherwise I wouldn't be posting about it on this forum, it's really pretty damn embarrassing..
Anyone ever dealt with a person like this before?
