I never put her through college to support me dude. There was no guarantee she could even pass college. Her English was very bad for someone wanting to go to college.. I married her because I love her, and did everything possible for her, because I love her. No other reason dude.
Going to college was her dream since she was a little girl.
When she did her studies, she had to write it out in Tagalog, Translate it into English, and then had one of her girlfriends that is really good in English, go back over it for punctuation, and other corrections.
BUt your crazy if you think I sent her to college to support me.
And she still tells me to this day how much she loves me because I loved her, and supported her when she had nothing. I sent money to her family in Philippines to build a block home, instead of living in a bamboo hut. Not wanting anything in return. Only that my wife knew I accepted her family, and she knew I would help them at any possible time they needed help, and I could help them... I got them a TV, and Electricity the first year my wife came to USA in 2002. I gave the vilage $500 to dig a well so they didint have to walk 1/4 mile to the river... I never ever in my life did things for her, or her family because I thought I would get something in return. I did it because she is a good, and caring person that deserved to be loved, and done right because she had lived a miserable fucking life dude.
I did what I did because I saw a good woman, that I loved, and cared about, who never had a pot to piss in, or a window to throw it out of.
We are best friends, and never get tired of each others company still to this day. When she has a day off, its with me she wants to spend the time, not her girlfriends, or anyone else. She knows I would cut my head off for her if I had to.
Youre retarded if you think I had ulterior motives. I did everything because it was her dream as a little girl to be someone, and be a success in life, Instead of living in a village in the middle of the jungle in Panay with no running water, or electricity, no shoes, or feminine products. I was the one lucky enough to find her, and love her with all the strenght in my heart, and body.